Learn How To Meet Girls

My fellow men question me about " pick up lines " and "how to attract a woman " and equivalent things incessantly .

But the correctness of the matter for all of these sort of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better recommendations than good old "experience".

But not surprisingly the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women?

You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I wrote my first e-book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.

Most importantly, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between meaningful relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.

Now I would be the first one to agree with the fact that a person who "multiple"� or "serial"� dates with no purpose of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"� issues.

However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and regular interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.

Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?

They said: "Don't get very serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."�

Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.

First of all, most adults never followed their parent's recommendation and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first acceptable� person who shows them some real interest.

Unfortunately, there is a big difference between "acceptable�" and "ideal"� and also unfortunately most people ordinarily continue this pattern of connecting with the first "acceptable"� person who comes along well into adulthood.

We call this "settling".

We call this "compromising".

We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.

You see there are many different types of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.

Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.

But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.

And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.